Rudeness: Is it the main reason to lead downfall? (Htet Zaw Htoo)

Rudeness:  Is it the main reason to lead downfall? 

When it comes to a work, everyone might have experienced both success and failure. There are many reasons why we get success or failure. When it comes to failure, there are also a number of reasons why someone fails. If a person does not try hard enough and they have no sufficient knowledge and proficiency either, never will they get any success. However, they are the common reasons which we hear over and over again. In addition to these reasons, there are other reasons to lead failure.

(1) Not listening to others patiently

Nowadays most people tend to talk a lot about their plans, idea etc but in listening to others' they are rarely interested. This is the main reason of conflicts. Actually teamwork is very important to get success. Therefore, we need to pay attention to other subordinates' ideas and opinions. If a person always decides what to do one-sidedly, it is sure that he or she will never be successful in their particular work. Even when they sometimes get success, neither any colleague nor subordinate will respect them as a leader. Accordingly, not listening to others is one of the main reasons to lead failure.

(2) Not Having Mutual Respect

Respect is a two-way street. People like working with and helping those they respect. People have to live in the society and have dealings with others. Therefore, we need to respect with each other in the society. Mutual respect is fundamental to be successful in whatever we do. A person who is not given any appreciation or respect by others may feel dejected and depressed; he or she would not love to try more and get any success.

(3) Not Following the Previous Ways

Creativity or making our ways to do something is good. However, we should not disregard the previous ways the older people, our seniors, have used when they are appropriate to our needs. We cannot deny that experience is the best teacher in whatever we do. Therefore, we ought to apply the ways more-experienced people use if need be. Even if we do not follow directly their ways, we should take the ideas of the experienced.

(4) Speaking impolitely and giving one-sided orders

Speaking fairly is very important in the society. If you are a leader, speaking fairly and politely is very important and if you are a follower, it is important too. If you give rude orders as a leader; here maybe when you give orders to your students as a teacher, they may obey your orders and put up with your aggression and unpleasantness. However, they never feel happy and end up with resenting you. And, as a result, they will likely not put in their best work for you. They probably won't put their heart into it, either, and without passion and heart, things become very average, very quickly. However, time always changes and table turns. Therefore, the time when you are in need of help or follow others as a follower. At such time, the very colleagues or followers or students you have ever worked with might become alienated by your past poor behaviour. Being rude is one of the ultimate ways to lose your friends and allies. Without any good friend or ally, it is difficult to get success by yourself.

When it comes to rudeness, there may be other different factors to describe rude behaviors according to different societies. However, the factors mentioned above are very important for successful living in the society. If a person is lack of patience; does not listen to others, has no mutual respect, always the ways the experienced have used and speak impolitely, it is impossible for him or her to get success. Even if they succeed in what they do sometimes, they are not stable and cannot last longer. Therefore, it can be said that rudeness is the main reason to lead downfall because of these reasons.

                                                                                                   Htet Zaw Htoo